May 8, 2026
When the Flowers Feel Heavy: A Different Kind of Mother's Day
This Sunday will be full of vibrant flowers, an aisle full of cheery cards, a reminder of something that you are longing for. A day that you once celebrated is now a day you are dreading. This Mother's Day may look different for you now. Instead of going to your parents' or grandparents' house for a day full of celebration, you're going to the cemetery to celebrate with your loved one.
It's okay not to feel okay. You do not "owe" anyone a smile, an "I'm fine" response. It is okay if you are not bubbly, if you feel something beyond the terms of "sad." Today you don't have to be okay.
You are not alone today. There is someone out there feeling the exact same way you are feeling. This post is not about "fixing" the way you are feeling, but about getting through it. It is my hope that this post serves as a support for the daughters and sons who have lost their mothers, who have lost their grandmothers, the mothers who have lost their children. This post is for you.